I Will Love You Despite The Distance

I will love you despite the distance

Distance makes any relationship difficult. It is a crucial touchstone that will determine whether the relationship can survive or not. But why do some people refuse to try a long distance relationship? And why can other people gracefully succeed?

When circumstances distance the relationship, many couples choose to end things. They do this directly, without even considering whether the distance might be an obstacle they could overcome. However, there are plenty of people who do plunge into this adventure, even if the obstacle is anything but small.

Long distance relationships seem difficult

Distance always seems difficult, after all you miss that contact that every relationship needs. Without this contact, the relationship cannot possibly succeed, you think. And maybe you’re right, maybe it will affect the relationship too much and everything will end before you even know it. But… why not try it out?

There are many people who enter into a long distance relationship because of their work, which sometimes goes well and sometimes it doesn’t. What’s the trick? There isn’t really a single factor; rather, there is a whole host of factors. These are people who, even though they are in a relationship, enjoy a degree of independence. At the same time, they know how important emotional contact is and how to maintain this contact, even if physical contact is limited.

Long distance relationship

Distance often seems like a huge obstacle at first, especially if the relationship has never experienced it before. People who survive the first stage often adapt in one way or another, creating their own mechanisms to make it easier: nighttime phone calls, letters, a large dose of patience, etc.

However, if the distance is hopeless, then there will be a third phase where the obstacle begins to turn into something bigger. The wounds created lose hope of healing, and eventually both partners begin to give up in silence. That’s why it’s so important to be able to stick to a date that will somehow end the situation.

Distance should not be a limitation

How do people maintain a long distance relationship? Is distance really a limitation? The truth is that we create the limitation ourselves, because distance is really just another phase of the relationship that you can overcome and even enjoy. If you find yourself in such a situation, then you should know that there are some things that can help you:

  • Keep in touch: without contact you will become completely estranged from each other. Take advantage of all the tools technology offers you to communicate every day. Talk to each other and share your fears, doubts, and dreams. In short, keep talking to your significant other.
  • Trust: Being far from each other can cause jealousy to set in, as you can never know what your partner might be up to. That’s why it’s so important to trust him or her, which means you should talk about the relationship. As you can see, communication remains fundamental to survive the distance.
  • Be flexible: just because your partner is far away doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t still need their space. So don’t get mad if you call him more than he calls you, or if you call a lot more often than he does. Maybe he has too many obligations. If you want to avoid pointless arguments, be flexible.
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If you want it, you can do it

Love relationships are not always rosy. Like all relationships, they have their ups and downs. The big question is whether you are willing to give yourself completely to the relationship, or are you willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work.

If you both want it, distance will have no power over you. Sure it will be hard, but who ever said getting what you want is easy? Everything you want has a price and requires effort. What would become of us if everything were always easy?

Long distance relationship

The most important things in life require the most effort. Don’t immediately reject a long-distance relationship just because you’re afraid it won’t work. Who knows? In love everything is possible.

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